New love wont let me in?

My new girlfriend of about 2 monthes has cancer. Everything was wonderfull between us and 2 days later she was supposed to call me and didnt. Instead she left the state. She wouldnt answer my calls and didnt even tell me she was leaving. She finnally text me the next morning said that she really wasnt feeling good and would be out of town for a couple days. She has ovarian cancer and Im thinking it got worse. She also said she had decisions to make that determine alot??? what ever that means. I know she is embarassed by her cancer and I know she either has to get treatment or get the ovary removed but then she cant have kids. The wierd thing is we seemed to be completely in love and now she has shut me out completely. I dont want to try and call her because i think im annoying her what should I do my heart is breaking. I also think she has to move away to get treatment so maybee shes just throwing me away which i guess is understandable but just doesnt make sense.....

New love wont let me in?
She has a lot to contend with, let her contact you.
Reply:well ummm it's cancer dude, there's a possibility she might die. so what she's trying to do is probably trying to have you phase her out of your life so you don't get hurt by what could happen. in other words, she loves you so much that she's willing to let you go before she dies so you won't be hurt nearly as much. that's a maybe of course so don't set my words in stone
Reply:She is going through a lot right now in her head. She needs some space to try and find out what she wants to do. If she is someone that wanted kids than she is going through a lot more than you think.





For some woman having children is what makes you a woman. Your girl is fighting a cancer that can be beat, but will leave scares on the inside .... ( her heart and soul )





If she fell for you as much as you fell for her than she will call you when she needs you the most.





This is something that Im currently going through. So Im speaking from my heart. I have a husband that loves me for me, however I still felt like less of a woman for a while. He is still with me and Im still not out of the woods yet.





So please be patient with her ! She will come around. If she feels that she doesn't need you and has moved on, well than its her lost.
Reply:Awww this makes me feel sad. I think all you can do at this point is re-assure her if you haven't already that you love her dearly and that you're there for her no matter what, and even if you're not speaking to her or she doesn't hear from you for a while, that doesn't mean you're not thinking about her.





She might need some space right now, so although you love her , let her have her space. Maybe if she's not back in a week or so.. go and see her? If you know where she is.





But I think call her.. and tell her the stuff above and more. The important thing for her to know coming from you.. is how brave she is and how much you love and care about her - also that you're there for her no matter what.